Dating apps raise safety concerns as experts warn of sexual violence risks
COACHELLA VALLEY, Calif. (KESQ) — As more people turn to dating apps to meet potential partners, experts say safety and awareness remain key concerns in the digital dating world.
Apps like Tinder, Bumble and Hinge have made it easier to connect with others, but advocates warn they can also expose users to risks ranging from fake profiles and manipulation to unwanted contact, scams and more serious dangers.
“Your safety is first,” said Lisa O. a volunteer advocate with Partners Against Violence. “They’re not always who they say they are. Don’t share any personal information and always meet in a public place.”
Lisa says one of the biggest safety concerns is oversharing too soon or meeting someone without telling trusted friends or family. She recommends meeting in public spaces, sharing your location, and paying attention to red flags—especially when someone pressures secrecy or avoids video interaction.
Local young adults echoed those concerns, even among those who have not used dating apps themselves.
“You don’t know who’s behind the phone and it could be someone you don’t even know,” said one College of the Desert student. “It’s really scary.”
Others said the challenge is that online profiles don’t always reveal a person’s true intentions.
“It can turn really dangerous pretty fast, especially if you don’t know this person,” said another student.
Advocates say situations can escalate quickly when users let their guard down or fail to take basic precautions.
Experts also stress the importance of trusting instincts and having a safety plan before meeting someone for the first time. That includes telling someone where you’re going, checking in before and after a date, and being willing to leave if something feels off.
“Do not be afraid to get up and just leave,” Lisa said. “If something seems off, don’t ignore it—talk to somebody about it.”
“Do not be afraid to get up and just leave,” Lisa said. “If something seems off, don’t ignore it—talk to somebody about it.”
As online dating continues to grow in popularity, safety experts stress the importance of staying cautious while making digital connections.
